Showing posts with label How To's. Show all posts
Showing posts with label How To's. Show all posts

Thursday, February 28, 2019

Hey there party organizers! Scotty's birthday is coming up, giving me the perfect opportunity to throw a get together. I am not sur...


Hey there party organizers!

Scotty's birthday is coming up, giving me the perfect opportunity to throw a get together. I am not sure how his friend's feel about all my soirees but I've had no complaints yet.

When it comes to planning I believe in starting with a big idea and narrowing it down. The first decision I make is picking the theme. I find it easiest to begin with a theme/color schemes/vision so I know what to look for in details or where to let my mind run when brainstorming.

Scotty is a simple man. Last year for his birthday all he wanted to do was "chill and go to the beach". So we are doing the same thing this year but..."extra". My husband has been working weekends for the past year but will start having a weekend day off every so often. Sunday brunch anyone?

I love the idea of brunches because of
  1.  Coffee
  2.  Mixing breakfast foods with lunch
  3.  Day drinking (and extra hours to get over a hangover)

I've never been a big alcohol consumer but even so, after passing 25 years of living (or 21, who am I kidding), my ability to tolerate hangovers is at a zero.

We live on the coast of California where the beach is only a short distance away. I wanted to take advantage of this (who doesn't love a beach day..) and decided to include the option for our guests to stay after brunch and explore our little beach town or possibly go for a bike ride along the Pacific Coast Highway.

Our guest list includes six people plus Scotty and I, all friends since high school and college. With eight people counted for, we are able to have an intimate gathering while still branch off and catch up with individuals.

This also allowed me to take the time and put some love (a.k.a. DIY) into each detail of the party.

The First Detail
The invitations: I knew I wanted to incorporate color into the envelope and coordination with the actual invitation. What I did not realize was how easy it would be!


I used some invitation envelopes left over from our wedding. I prefer to use envelopes with a pointed flap, however having a straight flap made cutting the backdrop super easy.

The Materials Used
Use what you already have: The thing about living life on a budget is that you have to be creative with what you already have. To Scotty's dismay, I have a tendency to, ahem, safe keep, things to reuse later. I save a lot in crafts because you never know when you could use scrap paper for something. 


The materials I used for these invitations are:
  • Leaf cardstock paper (6 in x 3 1/2 in)
  • Green "moss" cardstock paper (4 in x 6 in)
  • White cardstock paper (3 1/2 in x 5 1/2 in)
  • Gold square 3-D stickers
  • Copper-leaf 
  • Glue stick
  • Double-sided tape
  • A6 envelopes

To get the dimensions of each paper, I based them off the size of my envelope. Had I used a larger envelope, my dimensions would be larger. Use what you already have: if you've got larger/smaller envelopes at home, play around with the green cardstock size- as the outline, that will be the largest of your three papers.

Word of caution: When you cut your green cardstock, make sure the back side of your paper does not have any logos/words. I used Martha Stewart cardstock (moss color). The only reason I know this is because it's printed in the back of one of my invites.

Step 1: Design Your Invitation
There are two things that I don't particularly look forward to when party planning. One is designing an invitation. To make my life easier, I use Canva templates and just plug in the party details. I don't just look at their invitation templates- I browse through posters or save the dates and mess around with them by adding text, photos, or elements.


I chose a green color because I will play incorporate palm leaves into the decor and envelope lining. I also knew I wanted my design to have a white background and be as simple as possible because

  1.  I would be printing from my home computer and
  2.  Ink ain't cheap

So this is what I created. With the help of Scotty, we came up with the text, played around with a couple of fonts and we were done. 

For those interested, here are the fonts that I used.
  • Beach/Brunch- Josefin Slab
  • N- Euphoria Script
  • Join Us- Montserrat
  • Test- Josefin Slab
  • Date/Address- Montserrat 

Step Two: Print
Remember when I said there are two things I dislike about invitation making? This step is the biggest nuisance to me and 9 times out of 10, will get me frustrated. I cut out printer paper and perform a series of tests to make sure the invitation or envelope turns out how I want it to. I will go through a few pages because I can never get it right. Somehow I get it done by messing around with printer page setting, and computer printing settings. If I have any tips, its: make your image file a PDF and print from there. 

Step Three: Put Your Invitation Together
After failing with the printing step, I always look forward to putting the invitation together. 



Using a double sided tape, I cut four small squares and placed them at the top, sides, and bottoms. Don't worry if the corners stick up- we will use the 3-D stickers to keep them down.


Step Four: The Envelope
After you admire how beautiful your invitation turned out, it is time to move on to the envelope.

To make the front of the enveloped, I did a google search for beach/tropical/palm leaf frames. I found this one on Shutterstock and typed our guests' names and address using Winter Calligraphy font for the names and I'm Fell English SC for the address.



To make the envelope lining, I cut my cardstock paper to 6 inches by 3 1/2 inches.  As I mentioned earlier, I had plans to use a pointed flap and cut out the paper in a triangle shape but this was so much easier!



Using a paper trimmer I cut a 12 inch cardstock in half (to 6 inches) then turned it on its side and cut ever 3 1/2 inches.


I then used my handy double sided tape and cut three square and places them on the corners and top middle of the envelope, right before the sticky/glue used to close the envelope. Before closing the envelope shut (watch out, you're invite isn't inside yet!) I ran my fingernail on the crease to make it nice and sharp. I did not put any tape on the bottom, hidden part, of the liner.

The Extra Step: Gold-Leaf-It
Want to "up" your envelope game with very minimal effort? Gold Leaf It. Let me disclose that I am not a professional and therefore probably don't apply gold leaf the correct way. I am okay with this and I have no complaints about my gold leafing.


A little goes a long way. The palm leaf image I used had a yellow star at the top. I didn't like this so I used a little glue (almost nothing) and covered it with gold leaf. I then ran my finger over it to give it a "rustic" look.

One of the reasons I love organizing and creating parties is for it's creative outlet. I experimented with different gold leaf designs on different envelopes and at the end found my favorite one: using gold leaf on the stems of the plants.


Saturday, November 11, 2017

So you just got married.. congratulations! Now you can spend the rest of your life with your best friend and live happily ever after...we...


So you just got married.. congratulations! Now you can spend the rest of your life with your best friend and live happily ever after...well after you apply for your green card of course. So what do you do first? How do you go about this very serious and complicated process? For some people, they can hire a lawyer and get it taken care of. This is great option if you are willing and able to fork over $5000 or more in application and lawyer fees. However not everyone is able to do this so the good news is YOU DON'T HAVE TO! Below I have outlined the steps my husband and I took to get through this process with a little bit of patience and the help of a family immigration lawyer.

HOW TO APPLY FOR A MARRIAGE GREEN CARD IN THE UNITED STATES

Before we begin, let's get some things out of the way.

1. You will have to spend some money
With any immigration process, you will have to pay an application fee. This is expected and there are rare cases in which fees will be wavered, but more likely than not, you will have to pay. I will mention the specifics below but expect to spend around $2k + mailing fees.

2. You will have to wait for a while
Again, immigration processes are complicated and an immigration officer will review your file. I don't know why, but every couples situation varies. Some couples get their interview and green card very quickly, others do not. There is no way around this and you and your spouse will have to be patient. The best thing you can do for time efficiency is making sure you send all your paperwork correctly the first time.

3. It will get tedious
If you have yet to look at the forms you need to fill out, know that they are long and repetitive. You will have to provide the same information many times as well as being specific about certain things. Be patient, it will be worth it!

To get started, you will need the following documents which can be accessed through USCIS website.
You will also need other documentation (or supporting evidence as they call it) which includes:
  • Pay stubs
  • Marriage license 
  • Tax returns
  • Proof of military status
  • Proof of residency
  • U.S. copy of birth certificate, passport, etc.
  • Permanent resident card
  • Passport size photos (make sure you write your name lightly on the back with pencil) 
  • etc.
*With each form there should be an instruction page detailing how to fill out the pages as well as a checklist at the end. I highly recommend looking through this and following through as each case is different and may require different documents. In case of doubt, I would over provide with information to not risk a "Request for Evidence" which could halt the process for a couple of weeks or months.

Remember when I said you would still have to put down some money for this? The filing fees are
  • FORM I-130- $535
  • FORM I-765- $410
  • FORM I-485- Ranges from $0-$1,140 click here and look under special instructions
Don't forget about paying for shipping, which could be quiet expensive if mailing first-class or overnight.  Also, watch out for biometric fees you may have to add to the filing fees on case by case scenarios.

So here is the main jist of it. Aside from gathering all the required documents and payments it will take time to write down all your information. You will feel like you are providing the same information over and over again (and you will be).

The last thing I have to say is to double, triple, quadruple...check to make sure you are not forgetting anything. Go to the checklists at the end of each instruction page and check items off. Make sure you are sending your document to the right location, and DEFINITELY make sure you get some sort of tracking number or way to keep track of your document at the mail office. Lost mail is no fun!

And above all, don't lose hope! Each process is different and have different response times. Be patient and know you are one step closer to receiving your green card. Good luck!

*Update- If you apply for work authorization (I-765) separately than your I-485, make sure you also include a copy of your I-797 receipt notice or it will get sent back to you.

Have you been through the marriage green card process? What is your green card experience? How long did it take you to receive your green card? Have any more tips or suggestions? Write them down below for others to learn and read about!

*I have no knowledge or previous studies on immigration laws